Is Alimony Just for Gold Diggers?

Alimony is one of the most litigated issues in a divorce. Often, the higher earning spouse will agree to other issues, such as the division of property and parental responsibility and time sharing, but would rather die on a hill than make alimony payments to their ex. But what is alimony exactly, and does it just have a bad reputation?

Although alimony is often portrayed in movies and television as one spouse living “the good life” on their ex’s dime, it’s use and purpose is a far cry from that. The first misconception is that alimony is not gender specific.  Either party in the divorce can be responsible for paying alimony to the other.

The threshold considerations when making a request for alimony in a Florida divorce are:

1)      Is there a demonstrated need for alimony?

2)      Is there an ability to pay alimony by the other party

Unless the answer to both of those questions is a resounding “yes” then the court will not consider issue any further.  The need for alimony is shown by the requesting party’s financial disclosures, which, in short, must show that the requesting party’s monthly income is less than the requesting party’s reasonable monthly expenses, for the lifestyle they are accustomed to.

What alimony is not designed to do, is leave the parties with the same income after alimony is paid, or leave the spouse that is on the hook for alimony with less income than the receiving party. There are various types of alimony that are suitable for specific circumstances, after a need and an ability to pay are proven.

After some recent changes to the law, there are currently four types of alimony available in Florida: lump sum, durational, bridge the gap, and rehabilitative. The award of alimony is limited in length to fifty percent of the duration of the marriage for short-term marriages; sixty percent of the duration of the marriage for moderate-term marriages; and seventy-five percent of the duration of the marriage for long-term marriages.  Short-term marriages are defined as a marriage lasting less than 10 years. Moderate-term marriages are defined as marriages lasting 10-20 years, and long-term marriages are defined as marriages of 20 years or more.

For durational alimony, Florida law limits the award to the reasonable need of the receiving party, or an amount not to exceed thirty-five percent of the difference between the parties’ net incomes, whichever is less.  

The main goal of alimony is to help one spouse transition from married life to single life.  The typical situation where an award of alimony might be appropriate is when one spouse was the “breadwinner” during the course of the marriage, while the other spouse sacrificed their own career goals to provide other valuable services, such as care for the children or maintaining the household.  The non-earning parent may need help in the form of alimony to meet their monthly needs until they have found a job or completed the necessary education to make themselves employable.

There are many other considerations when it comes to alimony and whether you are seeking alimony or have an alimony obligation, you should seek the advice of a Florida family law attorney.

Cody Law would be happy to discuss with you and help you navigate the issues you are facing.  Call or e-mail for a consultation (904) 837-5222.

Step-Parent Adoption in Florida

Step-parent adoption allows a person to obtain full parental rights over their step-child. Step-parent adoption is best suited in a situation where the step-parent is already acting as the parent of the child being adopted and wishes to legalize the parental relationship already in place. The stepparent adoption just makes it official and legally valid and solidifies the relationship between the child and the adopting parent.

A step-parent adoption is available when one biological parent of the child and their spouse (the step-parent) want the step-parent to adopt the child, and the other biological parent of the child consents to the adoption. The adopting step-parent initiates the proceeding by filing a joint Petition, along with their spouse (the biological mother or father of the child). The adoption terminates the parental rights of the other biological parent.

The requirements for a Stepparent to adopt a Stepchild in Florida are:

• The stepparent and the stepparent's spouse first file a Joint Petition for Adoption.

• The other biological parent must either consent to the petition, or the petition must state the reason why the biological parent's consent is not required.

• The stepparent must be able to financially and morally support the stepchild.

• After filing the Petition the court will conduct a final hearing and enter a final judgment

• An amended birth certificate can be obtained for the child, listing the new mother and father.

  After entry of the final adoption judgment the birth certificate is amended to reflect that the stepparent and natural parent are the parents of the child. The result is as though the child was born to the natural parent and the stepparent. The birth certificate is amended to show the names of the natural parent and stepparent.

Benefits of Step-Parent Adoption include:

• Stability for the child.

• Estate planning purposes- once the step-parent adoption is completed the child can inherit from the step-parent's estate.

• So that family members can legally share the same last name

• legal protection for the child

• to build an emotional bond between stepparent and child.

At Cody Law, Step-Parent adoptions are one of our favorite and most fulfilling areas of practice. Contact our office to discuss with us further and see if a step-parent adoption may be available to you and your spouse.

Relocating with Children in a Divorce

A question that comes up frequently in Florida family law practice is, what happens when one parent wants to move? There are lots of reasons one parent may decide to relocate. Whether it is to be closer to other family members, for a work opportunity, or due to the cost of living in the area. If you are facing divorce and there are minor children involved then you may need prior court approval to relocate.

When does the Relocation Rule Apply?

Florida Statute § 61.13001 (1) (2023), contains specific requirements when a parent, or any person with rights to time sharing with a child, desires to move. The relocation statute applies when:

(1) the move is for at least 60 consecutive days as opposed to a temporary absence such as a vacation;

(2) The move is at least 50 miles in distance (as the crow flies) from the parent’s prior address.

 If you meet this criteria, its imperative to comply with the relocation statute and petition the court to approve the relocation prior to making a move. If a party fails to obtain court approval to relocate that party could be held in contempt of court or ordered to return the child. 

Can the Parents Agree on the Relocation?

The easiest way for one parent to relocate is with the approval of the other parent (or anyone entitled to time-sharing with the child) for the move. If both parties agree they can enter into a written agreement. The written agreement must:

(1) Clearly state that you both agree to the relocation.

(2) Set forth a time-sharing schedule for the non-relocating parent.

(3) Detail transportation arrangements necessary to make the new time-sharing plan work.

The written agreement, once signed by all parties, must be filed with the court and approved by court order.

What Happens When the Parties do not Agree?

absent an agreement between the parties, the party seeking to relocate must file a formal petition requesting permission to relocate with the court. The petition must include specific details of the relocation and reasons for the move and must be served on the other party in accordance with Florida law. You should consult with a Florida family law attorney who can assist in the preparation and filing of your petition.

The court will consider the best interests of the child in making its decision on whether or not to approve the relocation. These considerations include but are not limited to:

• The child’s age and developmental stage;

• How the move might affect the child’s educational, physical and emotional development;

• Whether the move will improve the child’s and moving parent’s quality of life;

• The current employment and ecconomic circumstances of each parent;

• The reason’s each parent has for seeking/objecting to the relocation;

• Any history of domestic violence or substance abuse by either parent;

• The relationship between the child and each parent, as well as siblings and other significant people in the child’s life;

• The child’s preference (depending on child’s age and maturity).

If you or the other parent of your child are seeking to relocate you should consult with an attorney to discuss all issues involved in relocation with a minor child. Cody Law can help you navigate the process. Call or e-mail us for a consultation.

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Should I Move Out of the Marital Home?

During a Florida divorce many people are faced with the conundrum of whether to stay in the marital home. While there is clear-cut answer to this question there are several factors that should be considered in reaching a decision:

Safety

The first consideration should always be any personal safety risks involved in continuing to cohabitate in the family home. If the environment is unsafe it is important to get out of the situation and find other accommodations immediately.

Are There Minor Children Involved?

If there are minor children of the marriage, it may not be ideal to move out of the family home until the court enters a temporary or permanent parenting plan, outlining how each parent will split time with the children. If you need to move out prior to an official order on timesharing, you should at a minimum have an informal arrangement agreement in place with your spouse for each parent to maintain timesharing with the minor children. Moving out could potentially have an impact on the Judge’s decision on parental responsibility and timesharing, if your case makes it to trial. The Judge will consider the reasons for leaving the home and your continued contact or lack of contact with the children following the move.

Do You Intend to Keep the Marital Home?

If you plan to keep the marital home, moving out may not be in your best interest and the court could construe the move as abandonment.  If it’s likely you and your spouse will fight over who should be awarded the home, staying under one roof may be helpful in maintaining a strong claim to the property.

Short Term Expenses

Staying under one roof has it’s advantages.  While it could be uncomfortable to live together during the divorce, it will keep your short term costs lower.  unless you have friends or family who are willing to let you stay with them at no cost, you will most likely need to pay rent, utilities and other living expenses on a new living space, in addition to costs on your marital home. Consider your resources and whether moving out during the divorce is feasible.

Access to Personal Items in the Home

Moving out of the marital home will limit your access to and control of items of personal property within the home. If you leave the home you should make a list of items of personal property and photograph/video items in the home to help with division of marital assets.

Ultimately, there are many factors that should be taken into consideration when making the decision of whether or not to remain in the marital home. Cody Law can help guide you in making this difficult decision. Call or e-mail us for a consultation.